How People Flourish is live every other week. Bring your questions.  Set a reminder →

For the worn out, the scattered and the searching

You were made
on purpose, for a purpose.

God designed you with intention. We help you understand how He wired you, recover what life has buried, and take your next faithful step with courage.

For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.Ephesians 2:10

A man walking into a snowy forest
Start where you are

Where are you right now?

Two doors, one home. Pick the one that sounds most like today.

The lighthouse

I need direction

Does this sound like you?

  • I'm busy all the time, but I'm not sure it's the right work.
  • I feel like I'm performing for approval.
  • I'm carrying things that were never mine to carry.

Take the Clarity Check →

Clarity, calling and courage for the next decision · guided by Chris

The stronghold

I need to breathe

Does this sound like you?

  • I'm tired in a way sleep doesn't fix.
  • Life has gone a little gray.
  • I've buried parts of me just to survive.

Take the Rest Check →

Prayer, beauty and room for the soul to heal · guided by Prudence

Stories of what God is doing

People like you, finding their way

“It’s okay for my wife to lead. It actually makes me a better leader in my marriage.”
A husband · God Designed Marriage training
“Taking the Nexus has been huge for me in understanding who I am… I have learned that I can be confident in who I am and that I have something valuable to offer.”
Mary M. · NEXUS Profile
“I say to my grandkids, remember whose you are and remember who you are. You are chosen and specifically designed in a very special way.”
Denise S. · A grandmother
The path

A simple way forward

01
Discover your design

Get language for how God wired you. Start with the free book, Your Divine Blueprint.

02
Recover what’s buried

Pray with One Accord each week. Bring what’s heavy and leave with room to breathe.

03
Walk it out

God Designed Living every week, How People Flourish live twice a month, and workshops for the decision in front of you.
Chris Behnke and Prudence O'Haire
Your guides

We’re not the answer. We’ve just learned to follow the One who is.

We’re Chris Behnke and Prudence O’Haire: two very different designs God keeps using for one assignment. Chris helps people find clarity and courage for the next decision. Prudence helps people find beauty, rest and room for the soul to heal. We’ve been married since 1997, we’re raising four kids, and we’re still learning. We’d be honored to walk a few steps of the road with you.
The 100-year vision

Where do you fit in the bigger story?

We’re building for generations we will never meet. Every part of that story has a place for someone like you.  Read our 100-year vision →
If you're raising a familyHomes where kids are wanted, known and formed.
If your work feels like survivalFind the work you were designed for.
If you can't look away from the hurtingCompassion that shows up in practical ways.
If you love the Church but you're wearyA Church that's beautiful and trustworthy again.
If you're longing for a place to belongA home where generations gather.
Partner in what God is building

“We are building for generations we will never meet.”

This was never ours to build alone. Partners make it possible to create the shows, craft weekly prayers, write books, and sponsor training so couples and individuals can understand who God made them to be.